Sometimes, in trying to follow a moral compass, we stop being selfish. We inherently think being selfish is wrong. But always being selfless isn’t right either. Sometimes, in the act of being selfless, we become unfair to ourselves, only to realize later how exhausted we are from constantly giving.
It’s okay to be selfish. More importantly, it’s okay to think about yourself in the third person, a person who deserves fairness just like everyone else in the world.
Sometimes, when everybody is thinking only about themselves and lecturing you about fairness, it’s important to be fair to yourself. It’s important to voice your needs and stick to facts instead of emotions.
You deserve fairness. Most importantly, you deserve fairness from yourself.